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Key Board Commandos & the Defence Forces: The Video Vagaries

Every Occasion, every Festival, every Birthday, every Anniversary, I never fail to get a call from Biraj – My buddy in my last posting. He came only for a few months, but a tragedy at his home, a still born baby, he was forced to stay with us for a year more on medical grounds. I got him a house allotted out of turn and ensured his wife was looked after by doctors regularly. At times when he was away in the unit to do his upgrading cadres, I drove his wife and her mother in my own car to civil Hospital (as we were in a defence establishment without Military Hospital facilities). His joy knew no bounds when he was blessed with a healthy boy. He considered me as his family, and till this day is grateful to us for having been with him during his troubled times. Such stories abound in the Army. You can call Biraj by any name – Sahayak or Batman, but he was my Buddy. I respected him, he respected me. Period!


Buddy System.  Somebody asked me why should you have this buddy system? Why not abolish it? Well, the buddy system is how we operate in war. Each man’s backside is looked after by his buddy. For an Officer you can’t have another officer, because he is only one in the Platoon or Company. So he has a Buddy. They train together. They are the eyes and ears of each other. The simplest example I can tell you to elucidate this relationship is by this example…… Have you seen old couples communicate? They hardly talk. One look and the other person knows exactly what needs to be done. Exactly the same way, the buddy and the officer communicate without speaking. It also helps the officer to concentrate on his tactical plans rather than bother about his administrative requirements which is taken care by the buddy. Buddy System is not only for officers but every soldier has a buddy. They live together, work together, train together and if possible go on leave together.

This buddy system is authorized by the Govt in the War Establishment. Every soldier is allotted work as per his trade classification. There are NO specific “Buddy” trade. A Soldier becomes a Buddy as per his trade requirements. In an Armoured environment more often than not the Radio Operator of the Officer doubles up as his buddy. In an Infantry environment the Rifleman becomes the buddy. In peace time, they need to be together and train together. Gen Panag in his Tweet reveals that the Batman concept came into being from a man who used to looked after the Battle Horse and hence the name Batman, which evolved to Sahayak and now the Buddy.

Buddy Stories.  In Northern Glacier in 1994, one soldier fell in crevasse and was not visible, going in for help was not warranted nor acceptable risk. His buddy, a young officer, entered crevasse without permission and rescued his Buddy with pulse of 18 only. Warmed him up and finally saved him. During 1947-48 war…..during an attack on a ridge, the Company Commander got injured so did the company JCO. While being given first aid for his injury the Company Commander had only one wish, to have breakfast on top of the Tekri…..As the Company Commander was from Rohtak, his buddy promised him that breakfast will be on Rohtak Tekri. Attack to recapture the ridge was led by that NCO and to this day that ridge is known as ‘Haryana Ridge’ with a ‘Rohtak Tekri’. I know of someone’s buddy refusing and delaying his daughters marriage till his Officer reached for Kanya Daan. There are many instances of the jawan’s children being named after the officers they served and respected.

If someone is using the Buddy for work other than what he is meant for, using more than one person as a buddy, then the person doing it and the one ordering it, both are at fault. They haven’t understood the True meaning of it altogether. Buddies are not servants by any means. Such practices if done, should be stopped forthwith. The issue is with shortage of officers, where there is limited grooming leading to misuse of this system.

Our Grooming. I remember, when we were youngsters, we had to maintain a “Crepe Book” which was made after interviewing each person. It had the details of each and every soldier in our sub unit. It also included his family details and everything under the sun from his pay to promotions. This book used to help us a lot, esp. when we used to meet a soldier during the day’s work. We would start our conversation by asking about his family. A soldier’s happiness and morale shoots up when he knows his superiors really care about him and his family. In many units, Officers on commission, stay with troops in the unit lines till they pass upgradation test and are accepted by their company as their Officer.

Many units send their young officers on a familiarization tour to the areas where their troops come from. They learn their language. Show me one Officer posted to a Gorkha  Unit who doesn’t speak Gorkhali! I was commissioned in a unit which was commanded by Col (later Brig) Riyaz Ahmed Ansari. He and his wife used to lead all the Aarti’s in the Unit Mandir. Vice versa, I also know of my course mate, Martyr Maj Rajiv Kumar Joon, Ashok Chakra, Shaurya Chakra, of 22 Grenadiers, who used to not only pray but keep fast with his Muslim troops.

Such leadership is a routine affair in Indian Army. Which is why our troops are ready to die in battle, because they know their paltan, their officers and buddies genuinely care for them and will look after their families with honour, long after they are gone. It is also because our officers lead from the front, that we have the highest Officer to Men casualty rates anywhere in the world. Our Forces have done proud to our Nation, every time they are called to action. Such victories can never be achieved if everything was actually rotten within.

Cook House.   It is a drill to this day in units that the Duty Officer visits the Langar- the cook house of the men, and tastes the food every day. Many sub-units take pride in the fact that their Khaana is the tastiest. When the supply chain breaks down due to contractual issues, breakdown of transport, bad road links, or due to poor availability of fresh veggies during summers, the kitchen garden comes to the rescue. I also know in some units, where the soldiers contribute 1 rupee each a day to pool in and make an extra vegetable dish to make the food better. And who is the Cook? He too is a soldier himself who is by trade a “Cook”. Good food is a great morale booster. After all the Army Marches on its Stomach.

In the field area, sometimes supplies do not fetch up esp. in forward areas when the weather gets bad for days. Helicopter drops are not possible, and hence there would be some days when we would be forced to go without fresh veggies. We lived with a bit of tinned food, till the time the weather cleared and we got fresh dropped in parachutes. Everyone understood the issue and roughed it out equally.

The Videos.  So it hit me, right in the socket when I saw videos uploaded by soldiers with their cribs and rants. Something seem to have broken down somewhere. On digging a bit deeper, I found at places things could have been better. But more importantly, What I found was that, the video uploaders themselves were defaulters, undisciplined fellows trying to avoid punishment by resorting to this method of maligning everyone up the chain. There is a malice in this whole show. The Armed Forces are by and large very fair and have a good redressal mechanism, a system that rectifies and corrects itself very well. It is nearly impossible to cover up issues in a large scale as there are a number of checks and balances in the system. If one or two bad eggs exists in the higher chain, they do get sorted out by the people above them. Hence the blatant idea peddled that a cover up takes place everywhere is prima facie false.

Media.   That brings me to the role being played by media. They peddle stories that sell. They all want to be by the side of the underdogs, they want to rescue those who are being tormented and downtrodden. Well that is all fine. But all Stories have another side, which is strangely not being portrayed. This hyperbole of videos and showcasing the poor side of the Forces definitely affects the morale of the Troops and causes a chasm in the Officer-Men Relationship, which can affect the Nation as a whole.

In battle, there is No question of defying authority, No second Takes, No Runners Up Trophy. When the Leader orders, “Fire”, there should be NO Questions asked back. Whether it is an HR violation, or whether there any restrictions. You either Fire or get Killed. You either Win the War…. or Lose it. Hence the Discipline and Authority is of paramount importance in the Forces much more than all other organisations. Media should never play with topics that break down this Discipline. If it does, then, We are certain to Lose the Next War.

Yes by all means, highlight any wrong doing by approaching the concerned HQ. Every effort will be made to rectify or reset and provide justice. Because these wrong doings by itself may prove to be the unmaking of a Disciplined Force. But if you do a Media Trial with inexperienced commentators, trigger happy Twitterati supported by disgruntled elements, be rest assured you have done immense damage to the Organisation that has been carefully nurtured over the years, and in turn will ruin the nation.

Our Defence Forces have been great and will continue to be, despite these Key Board Commandos and Social Media Warriors (who wouldn’t know the difference between Gorilla & Guerrilla as Sam Manekshaw put it). I request you to kindly stop sharing the one sided untruths. For those of you who did not have clarity on this issue, I hope you have it now.


Let’s be there for those who Live and Die for us- Our Armed Forces. Let us Salute the True Heroes and Warriors, not the smart alecs with their smart phone.

Jai Hind!


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20 thoughts on “Key Board Commandos & the Defence Forces: The Video Vagaries

  1. Elavarasan on said:

    Well articulated Sajan…

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  2. Col Pardeep Kumar on said:

    Well articulated blog by the officer.
    This buddy or sahayak thing has always been an issue that crops up time and again on the behest of certain interested parties and at times by some disgruntled or indesciplined soldiers but the requirement of the system has been well explained.

    There may be certain abberations or misuse of the authority but checks are also in place for such instances.

    However it is to be seen as how those in civil or political arena misuse their subordinates. Camp office of a Collector or an SP is established at the official residence which essentially comprises of the staff working at home as domestic helps barring a clerk or typist.

    Senior beaureaucrates are known to carry peons and Mali’s employed in an office with them on being posted out and used as domestic servants.

    Similar instances can be there at the household of Netas, so why single out Army?

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  3. Prashant on said:

    Awesome…Most agreed.. Armed forces of India are simply a matchless institution..

    Salute to our Army….

    Liked by 1 person

  4. Brig A K Sharma on said:

    Fully agree Sajan. Lucidly put

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  5. Arivuchelvan J on said:

    Dear Col Sajan a very well expounded piece of writing to underststand the true meaning of esprit de corps. Congrats!!!

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  6. Vety well Expressed… all facts … no fibs

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  7. col Amish Chadha (Veteran) on said:

    Gud article as always buddy u written it like it is. No one can undermine an officer buddy relationship,he is a threat to the newly wed wife as he refuses to let go his control over his sahab.

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  8. Pankaj Fotedar on said:

    Sajan .. as always you have come up with a factual and well articulated write up on buddy system… whatever one may do, those who have decided to see things with coloured glasses will continue to do so .. saw a debate on NDTV two days back with some college kids debating buddy system .. felt ashamed of NDTV that day .. Hope some of them in the media do read this piece with an open mind .. Great show buddy ..

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  9. Col K Chaturvedi on said:

    Every word & sentence is very true and authentic . Army/ Def forces are not what media or social media portrays . Disgruntled people run down the best of Organization Defence Forces cannot be spared .
    Good news is no news and bad news is good news – media philosophy .
    Very well written Sajan , regards

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  10. Sir excellent piece. Was a pleasant read. Hail sky warriors.

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  11. Tushar Jadhav on said:

    A very well written article….Bond tht exist betn buddy n offr can never be understood by civilian frnds or media …

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  12. deepak on said:

    A factual article on the AF, Most of the company Commanders, CO’s misuse the batmens, having 2 to 3 batmans all doing personal works of the officer. the words Sahayak, Buddy sound good but is fooling the public. Yet Considering the 24 hrs job for the Armed Forces in general and specifically for the officers, the Batman is a necessity rather than a luxury as is being projected by the media.

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  13. Col (Dr) K JAGANNATHAN on said:

    Well said Sajan. J & K sanctions lifetime domestic help for Judges from Taxpayers money. No questions asked??? People cannot see the role of a buddy for an Army Officer.. ..

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  14. I served in the Army for 28 years. One of my buddies had his land in his village grabbed by local dabangs. By literally forcing the local police and administration to act the land was restored to his family. Another buddy, whom I personally taught and who is a proud JCO today attributes his wife’s second life after a bout with TB to me. I was pleasantly surprised to know that he has named his daughter the same as the name of my daughter. A retired havildar who had served with me needed help for his son diagnosed with terminal ailment of blood cancer. My herculean efforts for arranging B(-ve) blood and a possible bone marrow transplant could not save the young lad. I arranged for his body to be taken to his village in virtually curfew ridden Punjab because this was the period of intense militancy. He refused to cremate his son saying that I ought to be present for the ceremony. Later on I made personal visits to various govt of Punjab offices for a possible reemployment for him. On one occasion I was shocked when one civilian official asked as to what was my ‘interest’ in the effort. Probably he thought that I would make some material gain out of it. I was appalled and sternly told him that he in his wildest of dreams can not understand the bonding between an officer and a soldier. As a duty officer or otherwise I remember making numerous trips to the men’s cook house to ensure that food was clean, tasty and hygienic and healthy. The disgruntled have found an easy way out to malign the Armed forces to give vent to their own frustration. These are the jokers who are envious because they could not reach there. The pseudos are jumping on the band wagon and trying to spread poison. But I am confident that the Indian Army’s fabric is extremely solid and strong. These jokers efforts to destabilize the system will definitely fail. We need not get worried and carry on doing our task with Pride and our head held high. Jai Hind.

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  15. Very well written Col Sajan. Thanks

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  16. KG Sai on said:

    Dear Col,

    Very well articulated with facts. The bottom line of the story is an officer has to plan operational issues rather than focusing on his own administration. So atleast in field ares buddy system is a must. It may be substituted by civilian staff at peace stations, but only after through research on the issue.


    • Dear Sir,

      We train for war during peace. A bond does not get established overnight. Hence peacetime training also follows buddy system. But that shouldn’t be a license to misuse. Misuse should stop forthwith.


  17. Bhaskar on said:

    Sir, its a treat to read your articles……Thanks for penning down the correct perspective without much of rancour to those who are hell bent on maligning the organization with a vendetta. I also want to highlight that we in Army have long been averse to any change whatsoever but its high time to accept that things like this will happen and the onus lies on the Army itself to reflect on the larger issues of men-officer relationships andhow to preserve the image of the Army at large. Too many sacrifices and precious lives have been lost to build this organization to its present shape , we just cannot allow some bad hats in both the teams to dent the image et all………

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  18. COL B V B PRASAD on said:

    Each of us who served in d army have such incidents. Another one I share is not even with my sahayak but an NCO who served with me 15 yrs bk. I met aftr 15 yrs in Delhi &due to demonetization ws stuck with no cash to pay my bills. He recognized me, met me and when came to know my problem, inspire of my saying no, he told d staff that he will take care of it. He ws very proud that v served together and even enquired about my family. That is d bonding v share.

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  19. In our days during the post 1962 war discipline was strict and supervision by the senior officers was also to go deep into the issues and take corrective action so that things did not go from bad to worse. Perhaps it is time for us to search our conscious and act upon it. Today’s soldier is well posted with his rights due to education. Let us pull up our socks and do the needful.

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